Adab visit and Glorifying Guest
Muslim readers who glorified by Allah ta'ala, a Muslim who believes in Allah and the Last Day will glorify guest is obligatory to believe that he will place in accordance with his position. This is as the words of the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam,
من كان يؤمن بالله واليوم الأخر فليكرم ضيفه
"Those who believe in Allah and the Last Day then let him glorify his guest." (Narrated by Bukhari)
Here is adab-adab relating to guests and a guest. We divide this discussion into two parts, namely adab adab for the host and the guest.
Adab For Host
1. When inviting someone, should invite those who do right, not a person who fajir (bermudah I hope in sin), as the words of the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam,
لا تصاحب إلا مؤمنا, ولا يأكل طعامك إلا تقي
"Thou shalt not make friends but rather with a believer, and do not eat your food but the righteous!" (Narrated by Abu Dawood and Tirmidhi)
2. No specialized invite rich people only, without inviting the poor, based on the words of the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam,
شر الطعام طعام الوليمة يدعى لها الأغنياء, ويترك الفقراء
"Bad-bad food is the food walimah where rich people were invited and the poor people left behind." (Narrated by Bukhari, Muslim)
3. Not invite someone who is known to incriminate him if invited.
4. Disunahkan welcome to the guests as the hadeeth narrated from Ibn Abbas radi 'anhu, that when the messenger Abi Qais came to the Prophet sallallaahu' alaihi wa sallam, he said,
مرحبا بالوفد الذين جاءوا غير خزايا ولا ندامى
"Welcome to the envoys who came without feeling humiliated and sorry." (Narrated by Bukhari)
5. Respecting guests and provide meals for guests only food he could. However, still doing my best to provide the best food. Allah ta'ala has said, which tells the Prophet Ibrahim 'alaihis greetings with his guests:
فراغ إلى أهله فجاء بعجل سمين. فقربه إليهم قال آلا تأكلون
"And Abraham came to the family by bringing veal fat, then he put the food in them (the guests of Abraham-ed), saying: 'Do not you eat?'" (Surat adh-Dzariyat: 26-27)
6. In the presentation did not mean to boast and be proud-proud, but intends to imitate the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam and the Prophets before him, like Prophet Abraham' alaihis greetings. He was given the title "Abu Dhifan" (Father of the guests) because of how noble he is in entertaining guests.
7. It should also, in his ministry intended to provide joy to fellow Muslims.
8. Prefer guests to the right than the left. This is done when the guests sat down in an orderly manner.
9. Prefer guests older than the younger guests, as the word he sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam:
من لم يرحم صغيرنا ويجل كبيرنا فليس منا
"He who does not love a little more respect from us and not older than us is not our class." (Reported by Bukhari in the book Adabul simplex). This hadeeth indicates the command to respect older people.
10. Do not lift the food that was served before the guests finished enjoying it.
11. Among civilized people who give their cuisine is to invite conversation with a pleasant conversation, do not sleep before they sleep, do not complain about their presence, sweet-faced when they come, and feel lost when farewell home.
12. Bring food to the guests when serving food such as God told him about Abraham 'alaihis greetings,
فقربه إليهم
"Then Abraham brought the food to them." (Surat adh-Dzariyat: 27)
13. Speed up to serve food to guests because it is a tribute to them.
14. Is the adab of the people who provide meal was served the guests and show them happiness and confront them with a cheerful face and beamed.
15. As for the penjamuan guests is as in the words of the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam,
الضيافة ثلاثة أيام وجائزته يوم وليلة ولا يحل لرجل مسلم أن يقيم عند أخيه حتى يؤثمه قالوا يارسول الله وكيف يؤثمه? قال: يقيم عنده ولا شيئ له يقريه به
"Entertaining guests is three days, while the honor a day and night and is not lawful for a Muslim to stay in place so that she hurt her brother." The friend said: "O Messenger of Allah, how to hurt him?" Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said: "The guests staying with him while he did not have anything to entertain his guests. "
16. Should bring guests who want to go back up to the front of the house.
Adab For Customers
1. For someone who was invited, should be filled according to time unless there is udzur, such as the fear that something happened to him or her religion. This is based on the words of the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam,
من دعى فليجب
"Those who are invited, Go to!" (Narrated by Abu Dawood and Ahmad)
ومن ترك الدعوة فقد عصى الله ورسوله
"He who does not comply with the invitation he had been adulterous in Allah and His Messenger." (Narrated by Bukhari)
To attend the invitation should pay attention to the following terms:
The person who invited not one that should be avoided and shunned.
No kemungkaran on where the invitation.
People who are invited are Muslim.
Income person who invited not from earnings which are haraam. However, there are some scholars claim that the invitation may attend pengundangnya berpenghasikan unlawful. His sin for the person who invited, not to be invited.
Not to invalidate certain obligations when attending an invitation.
There is no harm to people who attended the invitation.
2. Should not discriminate who is invited, whether rich people or poor people.
3. Berniatlah that our presence as a mark of respect to fellow Muslims. As the hadith that explains that, "All charities depend on his intention, because each person depending on his intentions." (Narrated by Bukhari, Muslim)
4. Login with the consent of the host, as well as to get home after they finish eating a meal, unless the host wants to live with them, this is as described, Allah Ta'ala in His word:
ياأيها الذين آمنوا لا تدخلوا بيوت النبي إلا أن يؤذن لكم إلى طعام غير ناظرين إنه ولكن إذا دعيتم فادخلوا فإذا طعمتم فانتشروا ولا مستئنسين لحديث إن ذلكم كان يؤذى النبي فيستحي منكم والله لا يستحي من الحق
"O those who believe, do not enter the houses of the Prophet except when you are allowed to eat with no waiting time to cook their food! However, if you're invited, go! And when you finish eating, you go out without extending the conversation! Indeed it would disrupt such a prophet. Then, the Prophet is ashamed to tell you to get out. And Allah is not ashamed to explain the truth. "(Surat al-doom: 53)
5. If we are in a state of fasting, remain disunnahkan to attend because the invitation appeared happiness to Muslims, including parts of worship. Fasting does not prevent a person to attend the invitation, as the words of the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam:
إذا دعى أحدكم فليجب فإن كان صائما فليصل وإن كان مفطرا فليطعم
"If any one of you in law, attend! When he fasts, pray! And if not fasting, eat! "(Narrated by Muslim)
6. A guest asked for approval of the master to eat, do not look toward the release of women, do not refuse a seat that has been provided.
7. Includes a guest adab is not much-the lyrics to glance at the faces of people who were eating.
8. Someone should make every effort possible in order not to burden the host, as the word of Allah Ta'ala in the above verse: "When you're done eating, get out!" (Surat al-Ahzab: 53)
9. As a guest, we are encouraged to bring gifts for the host as this can strengthen the love between fellow Muslims,
Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Give the gift of you! Undoubtedly you will love each other. "(Narrated by Bukhari)
10. If a guest came along who was not invited, she must ask permission to host the first, as the hadith of Ibn Mas'ud narrated radi 'anhu:
كان من الأنصار رجل يقال له أبو شعيب وكان له غلام لحام فقال اصنع لي طعاما ادع رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم خامس خمسة فدعا رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم خامس خمسة فتبعهم رجل فقال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم إنك دعوتنا خامس خمسة وهذا رجل قد تبعنا فإن شئت اذن له وإن شئت تركته قال بل أذنت له
"There was a man among Anshor who was called Abu Shu'aib. He had a butcher's son. Then he said to him, "Make me food with which I could invite five people with the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam. Then, the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam that person invites four people is his fifth. Then, there is someone who followed him. So the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "You invited us to five people and these people follow us. When you are pleased, let it! When not, I'll leave it. "Later, Abu Suaib said," I have let him. "" (Narrated by Bukhari)
11. A guest should pray for the person who gave him dish after tasting the food with the prayer:
أفطر عندكم الصائمون, وأكل طعامكم الأبرار, وصلت عليكم الملائكة
"People who break their fast have been beside you. People who either have to eat your food. hopefully the angels pray for you all. "(Abu Daud, dishahihkan by Al-Albani)
اللهم أطعم من أطعمني, واسق من سقاني
"O Allah, give food to those already providing food to me and give drink to the person who gave me drink." (Narrated by Muslim)
اللهم اغفر لهم وارحمهم وبارك لهم فيما رزقتهم
"O God forgive their sins and have mercy on them and berkahilah their sustenance." (Narrated by Muslim)
12. After finishing a visit let a guest go home with a roomy chest, showing a noble character, and forgive any shortcomings of the host.
من كان يؤمن بالله واليوم الأخر فليكرم ضيفه
"Those who believe in Allah and the Last Day then let him glorify his guest." (Narrated by Bukhari)
Here is adab-adab relating to guests and a guest. We divide this discussion into two parts, namely adab adab for the host and the guest.
Adab For Host
1. When inviting someone, should invite those who do right, not a person who fajir (bermudah I hope in sin), as the words of the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam,
لا تصاحب إلا مؤمنا, ولا يأكل طعامك إلا تقي
"Thou shalt not make friends but rather with a believer, and do not eat your food but the righteous!" (Narrated by Abu Dawood and Tirmidhi)
2. No specialized invite rich people only, without inviting the poor, based on the words of the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam,
شر الطعام طعام الوليمة يدعى لها الأغنياء, ويترك الفقراء
"Bad-bad food is the food walimah where rich people were invited and the poor people left behind." (Narrated by Bukhari, Muslim)
3. Not invite someone who is known to incriminate him if invited.
4. Disunahkan welcome to the guests as the hadeeth narrated from Ibn Abbas radi 'anhu, that when the messenger Abi Qais came to the Prophet sallallaahu' alaihi wa sallam, he said,
مرحبا بالوفد الذين جاءوا غير خزايا ولا ندامى
"Welcome to the envoys who came without feeling humiliated and sorry." (Narrated by Bukhari)
5. Respecting guests and provide meals for guests only food he could. However, still doing my best to provide the best food. Allah ta'ala has said, which tells the Prophet Ibrahim 'alaihis greetings with his guests:
فراغ إلى أهله فجاء بعجل سمين. فقربه إليهم قال آلا تأكلون
"And Abraham came to the family by bringing veal fat, then he put the food in them (the guests of Abraham-ed), saying: 'Do not you eat?'" (Surat adh-Dzariyat: 26-27)
6. In the presentation did not mean to boast and be proud-proud, but intends to imitate the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam and the Prophets before him, like Prophet Abraham' alaihis greetings. He was given the title "Abu Dhifan" (Father of the guests) because of how noble he is in entertaining guests.
7. It should also, in his ministry intended to provide joy to fellow Muslims.
8. Prefer guests to the right than the left. This is done when the guests sat down in an orderly manner.
9. Prefer guests older than the younger guests, as the word he sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam:
من لم يرحم صغيرنا ويجل كبيرنا فليس منا
"He who does not love a little more respect from us and not older than us is not our class." (Reported by Bukhari in the book Adabul simplex). This hadeeth indicates the command to respect older people.
10. Do not lift the food that was served before the guests finished enjoying it.
11. Among civilized people who give their cuisine is to invite conversation with a pleasant conversation, do not sleep before they sleep, do not complain about their presence, sweet-faced when they come, and feel lost when farewell home.
12. Bring food to the guests when serving food such as God told him about Abraham 'alaihis greetings,
فقربه إليهم
"Then Abraham brought the food to them." (Surat adh-Dzariyat: 27)
13. Speed up to serve food to guests because it is a tribute to them.
14. Is the adab of the people who provide meal was served the guests and show them happiness and confront them with a cheerful face and beamed.
15. As for the penjamuan guests is as in the words of the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam,
الضيافة ثلاثة أيام وجائزته يوم وليلة ولا يحل لرجل مسلم أن يقيم عند أخيه حتى يؤثمه قالوا يارسول الله وكيف يؤثمه? قال: يقيم عنده ولا شيئ له يقريه به
"Entertaining guests is three days, while the honor a day and night and is not lawful for a Muslim to stay in place so that she hurt her brother." The friend said: "O Messenger of Allah, how to hurt him?" Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said: "The guests staying with him while he did not have anything to entertain his guests. "
16. Should bring guests who want to go back up to the front of the house.
Adab For Customers
1. For someone who was invited, should be filled according to time unless there is udzur, such as the fear that something happened to him or her religion. This is based on the words of the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam,
من دعى فليجب
"Those who are invited, Go to!" (Narrated by Abu Dawood and Ahmad)
ومن ترك الدعوة فقد عصى الله ورسوله
"He who does not comply with the invitation he had been adulterous in Allah and His Messenger." (Narrated by Bukhari)
To attend the invitation should pay attention to the following terms:
The person who invited not one that should be avoided and shunned.
No kemungkaran on where the invitation.
People who are invited are Muslim.
Income person who invited not from earnings which are haraam. However, there are some scholars claim that the invitation may attend pengundangnya berpenghasikan unlawful. His sin for the person who invited, not to be invited.
Not to invalidate certain obligations when attending an invitation.
There is no harm to people who attended the invitation.
2. Should not discriminate who is invited, whether rich people or poor people.
3. Berniatlah that our presence as a mark of respect to fellow Muslims. As the hadith that explains that, "All charities depend on his intention, because each person depending on his intentions." (Narrated by Bukhari, Muslim)
4. Login with the consent of the host, as well as to get home after they finish eating a meal, unless the host wants to live with them, this is as described, Allah Ta'ala in His word:
ياأيها الذين آمنوا لا تدخلوا بيوت النبي إلا أن يؤذن لكم إلى طعام غير ناظرين إنه ولكن إذا دعيتم فادخلوا فإذا طعمتم فانتشروا ولا مستئنسين لحديث إن ذلكم كان يؤذى النبي فيستحي منكم والله لا يستحي من الحق
"O those who believe, do not enter the houses of the Prophet except when you are allowed to eat with no waiting time to cook their food! However, if you're invited, go! And when you finish eating, you go out without extending the conversation! Indeed it would disrupt such a prophet. Then, the Prophet is ashamed to tell you to get out. And Allah is not ashamed to explain the truth. "(Surat al-doom: 53)
5. If we are in a state of fasting, remain disunnahkan to attend because the invitation appeared happiness to Muslims, including parts of worship. Fasting does not prevent a person to attend the invitation, as the words of the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam:
إذا دعى أحدكم فليجب فإن كان صائما فليصل وإن كان مفطرا فليطعم
"If any one of you in law, attend! When he fasts, pray! And if not fasting, eat! "(Narrated by Muslim)
6. A guest asked for approval of the master to eat, do not look toward the release of women, do not refuse a seat that has been provided.
7. Includes a guest adab is not much-the lyrics to glance at the faces of people who were eating.
8. Someone should make every effort possible in order not to burden the host, as the word of Allah Ta'ala in the above verse: "When you're done eating, get out!" (Surat al-Ahzab: 53)
9. As a guest, we are encouraged to bring gifts for the host as this can strengthen the love between fellow Muslims,
Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Give the gift of you! Undoubtedly you will love each other. "(Narrated by Bukhari)
10. If a guest came along who was not invited, she must ask permission to host the first, as the hadith of Ibn Mas'ud narrated radi 'anhu:
كان من الأنصار رجل يقال له أبو شعيب وكان له غلام لحام فقال اصنع لي طعاما ادع رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم خامس خمسة فدعا رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم خامس خمسة فتبعهم رجل فقال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم إنك دعوتنا خامس خمسة وهذا رجل قد تبعنا فإن شئت اذن له وإن شئت تركته قال بل أذنت له
"There was a man among Anshor who was called Abu Shu'aib. He had a butcher's son. Then he said to him, "Make me food with which I could invite five people with the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam. Then, the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam that person invites four people is his fifth. Then, there is someone who followed him. So the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "You invited us to five people and these people follow us. When you are pleased, let it! When not, I'll leave it. "Later, Abu Suaib said," I have let him. "" (Narrated by Bukhari)
11. A guest should pray for the person who gave him dish after tasting the food with the prayer:
أفطر عندكم الصائمون, وأكل طعامكم الأبرار, وصلت عليكم الملائكة
"People who break their fast have been beside you. People who either have to eat your food. hopefully the angels pray for you all. "(Abu Daud, dishahihkan by Al-Albani)
اللهم أطعم من أطعمني, واسق من سقاني
"O Allah, give food to those already providing food to me and give drink to the person who gave me drink." (Narrated by Muslim)
اللهم اغفر لهم وارحمهم وبارك لهم فيما رزقتهم
"O God forgive their sins and have mercy on them and berkahilah their sustenance." (Narrated by Muslim)
12. After finishing a visit let a guest go home with a roomy chest, showing a noble character, and forgive any shortcomings of the host.
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