Want to Improve My Half of my religion
In this era no doubt full of temptations here and there. At the moment these women no longer have a sense of shame. At the moment many of the womenfolk who are no longer dress modestly and syar'i. While women are more than happy to show her legs wearing a headscarf that covers the aurat. Certainly a man more tempted and have evil intentions, let alone who is still single. Want to fortify ourselves from desires by fasting very difficult because the wave is still towering slander. Appropriate solution at a time when physically and financially able is to get married.
Improve Half Religion
From Anas ibn Malik radi 'anhu, he said that the Prophet sallallaahu' alaihi wa sallam said,
إذا تزوج العبد فقد كمل نصف الدين, فليتق الله في النصف الباقي
"If someone is married, then he has perfected half of his religion. Therefore, the fear of God in the other half. "(Narrated by Al Bayhaqi in Syu'abul Faith. Dishahihkan by Sheikh Al Albani in Genealogy As Ash or higher no. 625)
See that among the virtues of marriage is to refine half of religion and we stayed away from the half guard again. Why can say that? The scholars explain that the general ruin one's religion is the groin and stomach. Genitalia which led to the adultery, while the stomach is greedy. Marriage means to shield themselves from one of them, namely adultery with the pubic. That means the half-religious married a young man had been awake, and the rest, he lived to keep his tongue.
Al Mula 'Ali Al Qori rahimahullah in Mirqotul Mafatih Syarh Misykatul Mashobih said that the Prophet sallallaahu' alaihi wa sallam "Fear on the other half", the intention is fear on the rest of the case his religion. Here be married as a half, this shows that very impulse to get married.
Al Ghozali rahimahullah (as quoted in the book Mirqotul Mafatih) said, "Those who destroy one's religion, there are two things namely the groin and stomach. Married means have been keeping away from one of them. With the marriage means a person to shield himself from temptation syaithon, to shield themselves from the lusts (of stirring) and further lower his gaze. "
Why Still Feel free to marry?
Some youth have been given by God breadth rizki. There we met already have a great business with a sufficient income. He can scratch rizki by processing several online stores. Some are already working in the oil company whose income is more than enough of course. But until now they have not also toward the altar. There is a reason not yet ready. There is another reason to still be too young. Some also want to say first courtship. Or others want to succeed first in business or in a career and said it was more urgent. And various other reasons stated. Though financial terms, they are ready and not have to doubt their ability. In order to motivate people like, below we express the other benefits of marriage.
(1) Getting married would make a person feel more calm.
Consider the following verse, Allah Ta'ala says:
ومن ءاياته أن خلق لكم من أنفسكم أزواجا لتسكنوا إليها
"And among His signs is that He created his wives for you from jenismu own, so you tend to be and feel at ease with him." (Surah Ar-Rum: 21). Look at this verse mentions that the marriage will be more peaceful because of the companion. An Al Mawardi in Nukat wal 'Uyun said about the verse, "They'll be so quiet when it is next to their companion because God gave it to the marriage of tranquility that is not found in the other." It benefits the soothing soul of every youth.
(2) Do not worry, God will supply rizki
From the financial side is enough, but always arise of anxiety if you want to get married. Misgivings that arise, "What can I provide for child rizki wife?" If you like it, then ponder the following verse,
وأنكحوا الأيامى منكم والصالحين من عبادكم وإمآئكم إن يكونوا فقرآء يغنهم الله من فضله والله واسع عليم
"And kawinkanlah the people who alone among you, and people who are eligible (spouse) from sahayamu servants are servants of man and the woman sahayamu. If they are poor, God will enable them with His grace. And Allah is wide (giving him), the Knower. "(Surah An Nuur: 32). Marriage is an obedience. And may God not let His servants miserable when they want to do good such as getting married.
Among the commentaries Surat An Nur verse 32 above is: if you were poor then God will meet you rizki. It may be inadequate to give the nature of God Qona'ah (always had enough) and may also collect two rizki God at the same time (See An Nukat wal 'Uyun). If poor, Allah will rizkinya inadequate. How else, if the footman is affluent and wealthy?
From the above verse, Ibn Mas'ud radi 'anhu said:
التمسوا الغنى في النكاح
"Get rich (living on easy street) to get married." (See Tafseer Al Qur'an Al 'Azhim regarding interpretation paragraph above).
Also mentioned in the hadith that Allah will always help people who want to maintain the sanctity of her past marriage. From Abu Hurayrah that the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said about the three groups who would receive God's help. Among them,
والناكح الذي يريد العفاف
"... A man who married because they want to maintain purity." (Narrated by An Nasai no. 3218, At-Tirmidhi no. 1655. Shaykh Al-Albani said that this hadeeth is hasan). Ahmad bin Al Khurasani Syu'aib An Nasai brought the hadith in the chapter "God Help for people who want to maintain the sanctity of marriage itself". If God has promised this, it means certain. So why should hesitate?
(3) People who are married means running the Sunnah of the Apostle
Allah Ta'ala says:
ولقد أرسلنا رسلا من قبلك وجعلنا لهم أزواجا وذرية
"And verily We sent some messenger before thee, and We gave them wives and offspring." (Surah Ar Ra'du: 38). This shows that the apostles were married and had descendants.
Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said,
أربع من سنن المرسلين الحياء والتعطر والسواك والنكاح
"The four cases that include the Sunnah of the apostles, that is the nature of shame, wearing perfume, bersiwak and get married." (Narrated by Tirmidhi no. 1080 and Ahmad 5 / 421. Hadeeth is dho'if as said Sheikh Al-Albani and Sheikh Al Syu'aib Arnauth. But the meaning of this hadith has been supported by the Qur'anic verse mentioned earlier)
(4) Married more will keep the pubic and lower his gaze
Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said,
يا معشر الشباب من استطاع منكم الباءة فليتزوج فإنه أغض للبصر وأحصن للفرج ومن لم يستطع فعليه بالصوم فإنه له وجاء
"O youth, whoever has the baa-ah [1], then marry. Because it would lower his gaze more and more to keep the pubic. Anyone who is not capable, then fasted for fasting is like medicine for her restraint. "(Narrated by Bukhari no. 5065 and Muslim no. 1400). Imam Nawawi said, meaning baa-ah in the above hadith, there are two opinions among the scholars, but the point back on a single meaning, which already has the financial ability to marry. So not only able berjima '(Sunday), but should have the financial ability, and then married. The scholars said, "Anyone who can not afford berjima 'because of its inability to provide for financially, then let him fast to curb syahwatnya." (Al Minhaj Syarh Saheeh Muslim)
That is the primacy of marriage. Hopefully get them-they were increasingly compelled to marry. Unlike the case if they want such as Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyyah who was not married until he died. He is a person who wants to give many benefits to the people and it's proven. That's what made him imprison intention to marry for the purpose. While those earlier on, rather than add to the benefits, even themselves devastated by the temptations of women is increasingly tense in this period.
Taking the Right Way
We recommend to get married here for those who are capable, not that taken with the wrong road. Some people think that marriage should pass before going out to get to know each other. That opinion was wrong because it was never taught by Islam. Dating, of course, would resort to such unlawful must touch, met and looked at each other, ultimately there can be adulterous MBA (married some accident). All of which is the last act of adultery is forbidden as an intermediary in the word of Allah, the Exalted,
ولا تقربوا الزنا إنه كان فاحشة وساء سبيلا
"Come not nigh to fornication; true that adultery is an act of evil. And a bad way. "(Surat al Isro ': 32)
Then we also advice for students who were in college (still in school) that have patience to get married. Some students who have not completed college are often "cranky" in ortunya to marry soon, he has not hold lust. Though he has not had a job and still beg in ortunya. How can he live by his wife later? We advise, happy ortumu before you intend to marry. That is graduating from college in order for ortumu pleased and happy because that is what they want from you and your duty is to serve them. After that look for work, then express an intention to marry. May Allah make it easy to achieve this. Therefore, if it is not able to get married, then perbanyaklah fasting Sunnah and be diligent to keep busy with college, studied religion, and the bustle of other benefits. Hopefully, it increasingly makes you forget about marriage for a while.
As for who is able to marry the physical and financial, do not procrastinate! Do not you will regret it later because a married usually say that the marriage was delicious just 1%, the remainder (99%) "awful." Trust me!
Hopefully this presentation useful. Allaah waliyyut Taufiq.
Improve Half Religion
From Anas ibn Malik radi 'anhu, he said that the Prophet sallallaahu' alaihi wa sallam said,
إذا تزوج العبد فقد كمل نصف الدين, فليتق الله في النصف الباقي
"If someone is married, then he has perfected half of his religion. Therefore, the fear of God in the other half. "(Narrated by Al Bayhaqi in Syu'abul Faith. Dishahihkan by Sheikh Al Albani in Genealogy As Ash or higher no. 625)
See that among the virtues of marriage is to refine half of religion and we stayed away from the half guard again. Why can say that? The scholars explain that the general ruin one's religion is the groin and stomach. Genitalia which led to the adultery, while the stomach is greedy. Marriage means to shield themselves from one of them, namely adultery with the pubic. That means the half-religious married a young man had been awake, and the rest, he lived to keep his tongue.
Al Mula 'Ali Al Qori rahimahullah in Mirqotul Mafatih Syarh Misykatul Mashobih said that the Prophet sallallaahu' alaihi wa sallam "Fear on the other half", the intention is fear on the rest of the case his religion. Here be married as a half, this shows that very impulse to get married.
Al Ghozali rahimahullah (as quoted in the book Mirqotul Mafatih) said, "Those who destroy one's religion, there are two things namely the groin and stomach. Married means have been keeping away from one of them. With the marriage means a person to shield himself from temptation syaithon, to shield themselves from the lusts (of stirring) and further lower his gaze. "
Why Still Feel free to marry?
Some youth have been given by God breadth rizki. There we met already have a great business with a sufficient income. He can scratch rizki by processing several online stores. Some are already working in the oil company whose income is more than enough of course. But until now they have not also toward the altar. There is a reason not yet ready. There is another reason to still be too young. Some also want to say first courtship. Or others want to succeed first in business or in a career and said it was more urgent. And various other reasons stated. Though financial terms, they are ready and not have to doubt their ability. In order to motivate people like, below we express the other benefits of marriage.
(1) Getting married would make a person feel more calm.
Consider the following verse, Allah Ta'ala says:
ومن ءاياته أن خلق لكم من أنفسكم أزواجا لتسكنوا إليها
"And among His signs is that He created his wives for you from jenismu own, so you tend to be and feel at ease with him." (Surah Ar-Rum: 21). Look at this verse mentions that the marriage will be more peaceful because of the companion. An Al Mawardi in Nukat wal 'Uyun said about the verse, "They'll be so quiet when it is next to their companion because God gave it to the marriage of tranquility that is not found in the other." It benefits the soothing soul of every youth.
(2) Do not worry, God will supply rizki
From the financial side is enough, but always arise of anxiety if you want to get married. Misgivings that arise, "What can I provide for child rizki wife?" If you like it, then ponder the following verse,
وأنكحوا الأيامى منكم والصالحين من عبادكم وإمآئكم إن يكونوا فقرآء يغنهم الله من فضله والله واسع عليم
"And kawinkanlah the people who alone among you, and people who are eligible (spouse) from sahayamu servants are servants of man and the woman sahayamu. If they are poor, God will enable them with His grace. And Allah is wide (giving him), the Knower. "(Surah An Nuur: 32). Marriage is an obedience. And may God not let His servants miserable when they want to do good such as getting married.
Among the commentaries Surat An Nur verse 32 above is: if you were poor then God will meet you rizki. It may be inadequate to give the nature of God Qona'ah (always had enough) and may also collect two rizki God at the same time (See An Nukat wal 'Uyun). If poor, Allah will rizkinya inadequate. How else, if the footman is affluent and wealthy?
From the above verse, Ibn Mas'ud radi 'anhu said:
التمسوا الغنى في النكاح
"Get rich (living on easy street) to get married." (See Tafseer Al Qur'an Al 'Azhim regarding interpretation paragraph above).
Also mentioned in the hadith that Allah will always help people who want to maintain the sanctity of her past marriage. From Abu Hurayrah that the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said about the three groups who would receive God's help. Among them,
والناكح الذي يريد العفاف
"... A man who married because they want to maintain purity." (Narrated by An Nasai no. 3218, At-Tirmidhi no. 1655. Shaykh Al-Albani said that this hadeeth is hasan). Ahmad bin Al Khurasani Syu'aib An Nasai brought the hadith in the chapter "God Help for people who want to maintain the sanctity of marriage itself". If God has promised this, it means certain. So why should hesitate?
(3) People who are married means running the Sunnah of the Apostle
Allah Ta'ala says:
ولقد أرسلنا رسلا من قبلك وجعلنا لهم أزواجا وذرية
"And verily We sent some messenger before thee, and We gave them wives and offspring." (Surah Ar Ra'du: 38). This shows that the apostles were married and had descendants.
Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said,
أربع من سنن المرسلين الحياء والتعطر والسواك والنكاح
"The four cases that include the Sunnah of the apostles, that is the nature of shame, wearing perfume, bersiwak and get married." (Narrated by Tirmidhi no. 1080 and Ahmad 5 / 421. Hadeeth is dho'if as said Sheikh Al-Albani and Sheikh Al Syu'aib Arnauth. But the meaning of this hadith has been supported by the Qur'anic verse mentioned earlier)
(4) Married more will keep the pubic and lower his gaze
Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said,
يا معشر الشباب من استطاع منكم الباءة فليتزوج فإنه أغض للبصر وأحصن للفرج ومن لم يستطع فعليه بالصوم فإنه له وجاء
"O youth, whoever has the baa-ah [1], then marry. Because it would lower his gaze more and more to keep the pubic. Anyone who is not capable, then fasted for fasting is like medicine for her restraint. "(Narrated by Bukhari no. 5065 and Muslim no. 1400). Imam Nawawi said, meaning baa-ah in the above hadith, there are two opinions among the scholars, but the point back on a single meaning, which already has the financial ability to marry. So not only able berjima '(Sunday), but should have the financial ability, and then married. The scholars said, "Anyone who can not afford berjima 'because of its inability to provide for financially, then let him fast to curb syahwatnya." (Al Minhaj Syarh Saheeh Muslim)
That is the primacy of marriage. Hopefully get them-they were increasingly compelled to marry. Unlike the case if they want such as Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyyah who was not married until he died. He is a person who wants to give many benefits to the people and it's proven. That's what made him imprison intention to marry for the purpose. While those earlier on, rather than add to the benefits, even themselves devastated by the temptations of women is increasingly tense in this period.
Taking the Right Way
We recommend to get married here for those who are capable, not that taken with the wrong road. Some people think that marriage should pass before going out to get to know each other. That opinion was wrong because it was never taught by Islam. Dating, of course, would resort to such unlawful must touch, met and looked at each other, ultimately there can be adulterous MBA (married some accident). All of which is the last act of adultery is forbidden as an intermediary in the word of Allah, the Exalted,
ولا تقربوا الزنا إنه كان فاحشة وساء سبيلا
"Come not nigh to fornication; true that adultery is an act of evil. And a bad way. "(Surat al Isro ': 32)
Then we also advice for students who were in college (still in school) that have patience to get married. Some students who have not completed college are often "cranky" in ortunya to marry soon, he has not hold lust. Though he has not had a job and still beg in ortunya. How can he live by his wife later? We advise, happy ortumu before you intend to marry. That is graduating from college in order for ortumu pleased and happy because that is what they want from you and your duty is to serve them. After that look for work, then express an intention to marry. May Allah make it easy to achieve this. Therefore, if it is not able to get married, then perbanyaklah fasting Sunnah and be diligent to keep busy with college, studied religion, and the bustle of other benefits. Hopefully, it increasingly makes you forget about marriage for a while.
As for who is able to marry the physical and financial, do not procrastinate! Do not you will regret it later because a married usually say that the marriage was delicious just 1%, the remainder (99%) "awful." Trust me!
Hopefully this presentation useful. Allaah waliyyut Taufiq.
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